My Love To You

Its the season of love and here is a letter from me to you.



Hey sis,
I can tell that it didn’t start with him cheating on u; neither did it start with him beating u up or not giving u all the attention u needed.

You had a strong notion that it was love – truthfully it was love built for a certain feeling.

Yes I know that feeling; I have being there… the yearning to be loved to be treated right…

We always want that special someone who is gonna look into our face even when we tell a boring story and still say “u re damn funny babe”; that someone who’s gonna trust us even though we know we lied…
The feeling that makes someone loves us die-hard despite our imperfections; the “knowing” that there is someone who would give up all for us…

I know u want all of this, my sister, but it’s not worth the struggle if he is gonna start well and end up with his fist on your face or another lady’s panties in his wardrobe.

It’s okay to want more, to wanna be loved; but its not okay to have to drop your standards low, to lose your self-worth, your respect, to lose your beauty to scars,to lose your confidence , and lose all that makes you who you are to a Man in the name of love, when he is meant to improve you.

My sister, my love, all I’m saying is: you don’t take just anybody because you need to feel loved. You don’t deserve less than what God has for you…all for that feeling that you don’t even trust.
You deserve more sis and you need to know this: YOU ARE A PEARL, the best investment a man can have. Don’t give yourself up for a cheap price.

Your Lovely Sister
Bsorlah.

My Love To You 2

Still in the season of love and have got enough to go round, here is a letter to my handsome brothers.


LETTER TO MY BROTHERS
Hi Bro,
I know you think I might not understand how it exactly works with you, but I do, at least, beyond average.
I have seen you get hurt, I’ve seen you love, and I've also seen you sacrifice all and get nothing in return. Not even her care, but then, you should move on right?.

Yes, I know you didn’t plan to be a
player, womaniser or a cold hearted guy. I know you got hurt by her first, I know it’s all because you lost on all your attempt to love and you got tired of trying.

Yes, you don’t want a lady who doesn’t see the best in you. You want one who is gonna love you like “momadaku” (I.e. I go die- yoruba lang).
Even in your humble state, I know you want her to
trust you and believe in your future, and you want her walking through your process with you.

But you don’t have to refashion your life because it looks like the kind of a lady you envision isn’t forthcoming. You don’t have to reduce yourself to every Lady’s man because you’ve been hurt before.

You don’t have to ruin it all because of one lady.

“You are a soon King of a wonderful Family” , You deserve more than sub-standard. You are a Treasure! .

Keep the standard, improve yourself, embrace the Adamic state, and then you will find the woman.


Your Lovely Sister
Bsorlah……

Grateful Heart

On the 15th of January, I got a notification from Facebook that my amazing editor Miss Fope Babalola shared a memory with me. After viewing it, it donned on me that I have being doing public writing pm and running this blog for  a year, 3 months and 3 weeks now.

Today, am sending a special shout out to the blog that gave me room to express" "Godpikinblogspot.com", to the amazing readers of bsorlahwrites.blogspot.com, and to those who check the blog daily, even when I post nothing.

I'm not where I want us to be, but we are on the way there and we will get there.

To my friends who criticise and encourage every piece I write, I'm grateful.

To everyone in general, thanks for believing in me, just stay with me there is more to come.

Whatever you find doing, do it well and don't relent, you may never know who is watching or learning from you. In that light, ensure you are doing something positive.

See you around.............. #Bsorlah 

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